I'm listening to Roxette again. Just in case there's someone who hasn't yet seen the connection: Roxette = Her. Especially all the ballads;
'You don't understand me'
"You don't really see that I live for your touch..."
'Listen to your heart'
"Listen to your heart before you tell her goodbye..." I revised the lyrics a little.
'Fading like a flower (every time you leave)'
"Every time I see you oh I try to hide away/
But when we meet it seems I can't let go/
Every time you leave the room/
I feel I'm fading like a flower..."
'I don't want to get hurt'
...now I'm crying again.
Why do I keep doing this to myself? And who was that bloody mockery of a philosopher who came up with the saying "out of sight, out of mind". Yeah. Sure. When the cows come home.