What is it that normal people have?
Where do you find friends? Where do you find spouses?
How can you develop either type of relationship?
How can you understand what other people want or don't want, especially since people don't say it out loud or even say the exact opposite?
How do you understand what they mean?
To what extent can you form a relationship with the assumption that all they've just said might be not true but that the other is just pretending because of the stupid social rules that dictate so?
What are all those important questions you should ask right away so that you wouldn't waste time and energy for something that seems to be going fine and is then demolished by a fundamental characteristic in the other that is something you can't accept?
To what extent can you accept the other's faults?
What do you speak about with a stranger yo want to get to know better?
Why can't those topics be of some importance instead of something completely useless like the weather?
Why do people want to talk about these types of things anyway?
Who cares about a notion of weather you can see for yourself?
How do people meet others?
Techincally speaking the likelihood of encountering someone with similar objects of interest and morals are so small that it would require meeting so many others with utterly incompatible characteristics which in turn would take so much time and energy?
Is finding friends and spouses really worth all that trouble and if so, why?
Why do we have to have cravings for social relations, friends and lovers, when at the same time we have severe incababalities to have and sustain them in the first place?
What is it about people others look for?
If I'm supposed to tolerate others' faults, why are my faults so much worse than theirs?
Why do I even have to have those faults?
What kind of faults are people willing to tolerate better?
What can you talk about with strangers?
How can you ignore the pretentious and lying nature of that very conduct, small talk, that people seem to think is the only way to connect with others?
Why is that worth the lying?