A notion of the not-so-merry Yuletide: Went through my grandparents' cards. Turned out that my family has sent cards to people they know for a fact I send my own. Otherwise fine apart from one tiny thing.

"Yuletide Greetings yadda yadda yadda... From Mother, Brother, Splenetic and Sister and The Boyfriend"

The same FIVE names were also on the card of the gift from the family of my mother's brother. Call me paranoid but I'm quite fucking sure there won't be no Riitta or Milla or Kiia there even if I had openly a relationship with a woman.

It's a shitty world and it just has to rubbed in on holidays that are supposed to be joyous. Joy my arse. Fuck!